hello all,
How many of you are familiar with the statistic that only 7% of what we mean is conveyed by the words we use whilst 38% is conveyed by our voices and a massive 55% by our facial expressions?
I hope at least some people are feeling slightly uncomfortable now and wondering where I'm going with this. Just like I was last night at a talk by a professional - I felt uncomfortable that I had to interrupt and challenge her but I couldn't let it go any further.
The statistics are accurate - they come from a study by an eminent psychologist Albert Mehrabian who was studying communication - but only in a very limited set of circumstances.
It's the misapplication of them that's so problematic.
To hear Albert Mehrabian himself explain why he 'cringes every time he hears the statistics' listen to Radio 4s More Or Less programme
www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/console/b00lyvz9
Or you can watch a quick video
www.wordsthatmovemountains.com/orphan/page32/page31/page31.html
Or chat to me here or give me a call. We've got to dispel this myth for our own credibility as communication professionals!
Warm regards,
Stella